How to be social as an introvert -

Can I tell you something that you probably don’t know about me? I’m an introvert, you’re surprised right?

When people learn that I’m a teacher, meet me at a show or hear me speak at an event, they assume that I’m an extrovert. And I know why, I”m confident, can be outspoken, and look at ease in front of a group of people.

While I’m totally comfortable standing in front of a room full of people, send me to a cocktail party, where I know no one, and watch me hide in the corner and squirm. Can you relate? I hate it, I’m uncomfortable, unsure of what do to do, and would rather be at home making scarves.

Well without a ton of thought I committed to going to Simply Stylist New York, a networking event for women. The morning began with 70 women milling around a room, having drinks, and me wanted to crawl under the table, but that felt inappropriate.

There were some important women at this event like Catt Sadler of E- news, and I knew that talking to them could lead to a huge break in my career.

So how did I get myself out of the corner and instead chatting with my arm around Catt Sadler?

First, I was clear on my goals before going to the event.

More women like you need to know about my work, and this was a great way to spread the world. My goal is for all women to be confident enough to speak up, and do what they love. ( looks like I needed to take my own advice)

Second, I dressed for success. No, I didn’t go crazy over the top. I stuck to what I liked, and what is true to my style. Then I put on an awesome scarf, knowing that it would catch people’s attention and that it would start a conversation so that I didn’t have to.

And with that I started talking, asking questions, telling stories, and having fun.

You too, have things that make you nervous, scare you, and hold you back.

But they’re keeping you from greatness, and the world needs you.

Make conversation easy, by allowing your scarf to break through all of the uncomfortable moments.